Dogs don’t speak human—and fights aren’t how they solve problems. The idea of letting dogs “work it out” often means allowing them to argue, correct, or escalate without human intervention. But this can lead to serious consequences. One dog may be significantly more powerful or reactive than the other, and what starts as tension can turn into a full-blown fight in seconds. Injuries are common, and if children are nearby, they can be caught in the middle or left traumatized by the experience.

Beyond physical harm, there’s the emotional damage. A single bad encounter can create a lifelong fear of other dogs—or even of people. It can sabotage a budding relationship between two dogs or between a dog and a child. Once a dog feels unsafe, they’re much more likely to react defensively in the future. Many people also miss the subtle early signs of conflict: stillness, stiff body posture, a hard stare, lip licking, or a tight mouth. By the time growling or snapping starts, the situation has already escalated too far.

Instead of taking a hands-off approach, it’s crucial to supervise all early interactions closely. Use leashes, baby gates, and crates to manage space and prevent tension from building unchecked. Step in early if you notice signs of discomfort—redirect the dogs with a calm voice, treats, or separation before things heat up. Most importantly, reinforce calm and respectful behavior so they learn what’s expected. Building trust takes time, and your role is to guide—not to gamble.

Dogs don’t need to fight to figure things out. They need leadership, structure, and safety. It’s our responsibility to help them feel secure, not to leave them on their own and hope for the best.